This is a topic that’s probably on the mind of a lot of guys and I think it really becomes a limiting belief for some of them. I can remember a friend of mine who wouldn’t even try with some girls that he found attractive just because he assumed that they wouldn’t like him for his height. So what I want to answer today is the question of can short guys get girls. Can they actually get the girls that they want no matter how tall and beautiful they are? So let me show you how you can overcome this belief and tell you how to get girls no matter how short you might think you are.
#1 Mindset and Breaking The Barriers
This is really key to your game and instrumental to you going up and talking to any girl. If you think that you can’t get this girl and that she will reject you before you actually go and talk to her then that is exactly what’s going to happen. Having a “I’m going to fail anyways” mindset makes you nervous, uncalibrated and just awful if you actually go talk to that girl and then you’ll think to yourself “ah, I knew it! it’s because I’m short”, but in fact you didn’t give yourself a chance in the first place. you let the question of can short guys get girls plague your mind.
You must get this into your head and make it some sort of mantra and you’ll see what results it will have for you. Say “Being short doesn’t matter, being bald doesn’t matter, being fat or being broke or being ugly, I’m awesome and I can get girls”. For you to make any progress you Must get passed thinking that being short or any of those things I mentioned actually matter for getting girls. The question of can short guys get girls should not even be crossing your mind at that point.
#2 You Have To Become a Social Machine
For you to be able to truly break free of the mindset that being short won’t get you hot or tall girls, you need to start being social and going out more. It doesn’t have to be bars and clubs, although they are great places for meeting a lot of women in a short period of time. You can go out more often and make it your goal to approach at least 1 or 2 girls a day and then get accustomed to it more and more. Don’t let rejections make you stop, you need to be able to get his down so that you can see how some very attractive tall girls actually will be attracted to you. This will slowly make you more and more confident and break that you social barriers.
#3 Bonus Tip
So Can short guys get girls? Of course they can and with ease in my opinion. The only thing limiting you is yourself. For more info on topics like this and building self confidence to get girls check out Carlos Xuma’s Video on building Bullet Proof Self Confidence with women. You have it in you to get any girl you want, you just have to take action.