This might seems like a pretty common topic but I haven’t really seen any real substance about this online. This is why I really want to give my two cents about this based on my experience on overcoming my own shyness. How to overcome shyness with girls is probably one of the most important things you can learn in the world of dating. Without doing it you’ll never be able to progress and actually experience the full potential of increasing your success with women. So let’s take a look.
Strategy #1: The Mindset You Can’t Go Without
You need to be able to think that you can talk to girls and that your conversation will begin, continue and end well. Your mind has a crazy defense mechanism of coming up with 1000 reasons of why you shouldn’t talk to that girl. You have to believe (whether it’s true or not) that women aren’t bitches and that they will actually enjoy talking to you.
Strategy #2: The First Approach Always Sucks, But it’s The Key Warmup
This is probably one of my favorite techniques on how to overcome shyness with girls. In fact, try to get rejected when you talk to a girl! This rejection will serve as a social warmup and will dramatically increase success on the next girl you talk to. In a party for example, you say hi to the first girl and you’re kind of shy still, she doesn’t seem that interested and goes to the bathroom. The second girl you go up to might actually be very interested in you and carry on the conversation. This is because she sees that you’re not stifled, comfortable and confident with your surroundings (i.e. the party). So give this a real try
Strategy #3: The 3 Girls A Day Challenge
Take it upon yourself to talk to 3 new girls you haven’t met before a day. Even one might be alright at first as long as you’re consistent. Make sure you go up to them and just start a conversation and say anything to make you more accustomed to approaching girls and I guarantee this will destroy your shyness over a short period of time.
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As you can see I want you to be realistic by taking ACTION in what you do. Having the right mindset, techniques and methodology to learn how to be overcome shyness with girls today and in the future. This will work for you whether you want a girlfriend or you want to just pickup girls regularly.